yesterday my "best friend" finally sent me over the edge - Page 2

Sierra · #26 04/05/2005, 10:34 AM

he doesnt like what his sister has been doing. He had a hard time really grasping the idea of his sweet sister acting like this. But we went over for a family poker game and he witnessed it first hand. Since then he's be asking me to stay away from her as much as possible. He is tired of his sister being so hateful towards me, and when he was over there he got some eyeroll from her as well.

but he wont intervene, its not his place. He gives me his best ideas on how to deal with it - and lets me deal with it.

Dolfan0925 · #27 04/05/2005, 10:38 AM

I'm kind of blunt. I'd ask with a straight face very seriously "Why are you always such a removed to everyone?"

If I were treating everyone like crap I'd want someone to tell me. She may not know she's doin it(doubtful)

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jdieck · #28 04/05/2005, 10:51 AM

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Originally posted by Sierra
yah - she likely wouldnt have said what she did, but her boyfriend was present at the time.

A jealous woman can be dangerous

Sierra · #29 04/05/2005, 11:03 AM

I dont know... what does she have to jealous of? I'm married to her brother and have 2 wild brat children and never go out. Her son doesnt need babysitting anymore, she is single and free to do whatever she pleases, and she has a boyfriend that loves her.

I'M a little envious of her freedom. I dont see what I am doing that would be making her jealous.

jdieck · #30 04/05/2005, 11:32 AM

I do not think you are doing anything, it is her doing it to herself.
I do not want to guess but could it be that she whishes to relate with her boyfriend the way you do? Could it be that her boyfriend has made one too many good comments to her about you? Who knows, but you know, IMO it is her problem not yours.

We are lucky, thanks to her we will have you more time here now