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12/04/2007, 04:13 PM
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Have another girl there...in one of your long shirts...and nuttin' else
Seriously....have someone else there, have her go thru a metal detector. DO NOT meet this person alone, you need a witnesss to whatever may transpire |
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12/04/2007, 04:25 PM
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aww i was gonna say have another girl there.
but not as far as her wearing ur stuff. and dont really say anyhting about her just make her wonder if shes a friend or more.. lol mess wit her a bit ok most likely bad advice but it is what i would do
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12/04/2007, 04:26 PM
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12/04/2007, 04:29 PM
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thats why I said public place - sadly all it takes is the accusation of wrongdoing to sometimes make your life miserable. I'd go one step further and meet in a public place with a girl you are friends with but not romanticly linked to
as said before by everyone only meet with her if absolutly nessisary, avoid it if you can
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12/04/2007, 04:33 PM
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Maybe a girl you are friends with but who understands the situation. You don't want to just bring a friend along who's going to get called names and made to cry.
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12/04/2007, 04:46 PM
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One hour to go.
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12/04/2007, 04:49 PM
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12/04/2007, 04:52 PM
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No potty stops....that's what diapers are for!!!
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12/04/2007, 05:06 PM
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Coulda, woulda, shoulda
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12/04/2007, 05:15 PM
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12/04/2007, 05:19 PM
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12/04/2007, 06:06 PM
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been down this road a few times. I'm assuming she's kinda hot, cuz the hot ones always seem to be a lil crazy! don't get sucked in! I know exactly how you feel. But your never going to forget what she did to you, trust me, it will never go away.
My advice, forget about her (and possibly your stuff) and go out instead. you just might meet a decent hot girl who's not as crazy. good luck, and dont get all crazy yourself and start fighting, cuz that's probably what she wants (besides sex haha) |
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12/04/2007, 06:09 PM
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Do you feel lucky?
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12/04/2007, 06:27 PM
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I'm in college right now and we have finals next week. So other colleges should have finals right around now. She is willing to waste a full day to play mind games. She must be crazy.
Meet with her in public, with a friend or two. Get your stuff and leave. You have a plan for life. Get the car and your PhD. She is wasting her time messing with you and hurting her grades. She is not serious about school you are. Sorry about the jumpy thoughts. I have finals on the brain. 
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12/04/2007, 06:28 PM
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I know this may not be the way everyone would handle this situation but this is my two cents. If you are over 25 years old though I do not recommend this solution.
I say see here. Play the game and get your stuff back. Just remember, no matter what, I repeat, NO MATTER WHAT, you will never marry that girl. If you take her back you are letting her know just how much she will be forgiven for. She is 4 hours away so that leaves you plenty of time away from her to get your groove on. When she is in town, you can hook up but other than that….. A man with a girl is a hotter commodity that a man without. Use that to your advantage. It sounds like you do not have feelings for here any more. Is this correct? I had a girlfriend that did the same type stuff when we were in college. After that I just looked at her as someone I had fun with. We had a lot of good times but I would never trust her again no matter what. I just came to accept that. As far as I was concerned this was no longer a relationship. I just looked at here as a sure thing to come back to if I struck out with someone else. After graduation she said if I did not give her a ring, she would not wait around for me. Needless to say the car was packed and I hit the road. Best time was when she called me 2 weeks before my wedding to ask me where things went wrong. I was fortunate enough to be sitting next to my wife to be and told her that things went wrong when she cheated. Also told her she was crazy and told her not to call again. Think about how fun it would be to drive her around in your the engagement ring, I mean car!
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12/04/2007, 06:38 PM
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Let her ''spend the night'' and in the middle of ''spending the night'' call her by a different name! always gets them out the door and now they never wanna se you again. works like a charm!
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12/04/2007, 06:41 PM
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12/04/2007, 06:41 PM
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not bad advice gcarroll, as I too have kept a few around in the same fashion...untill the two ended fighting in my living room. It was cool and all, but I'm over the drama. If I never cut them loose, I might not have met my GF today.
Don't waste too much time on her, but its true: A man with a girl is a hotter commodity that a man without. Use that to your advantage. |
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12/04/2007, 06:51 PM
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I think the hot=crazy is just a way to explain why things didn't/don't work. If it needs to be used for therapy what the heck.
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12/04/2007, 07:10 PM
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12/04/2007, 07:15 PM
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Now you're talking my language.
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12/04/2007, 08:56 PM
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What happened to the O.P.?
If he gets back together with her, he deserves what he gets, after everyone told him it was a horrible idea.
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12/04/2007, 09:44 PM
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maybe they went to the no-tell motel
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