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Old 11/30/2007, 11:27 PM
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I'm so sorry, Charlene. You've been a pillar of strength through all of this and an inspiration to so many. God bless. And yes, there is another angel in heaven tonight.
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Old 11/30/2007, 11:28 PM
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Oh Nina- I am sorry to hear but I am glad he passed away peacefully with his most loved one at his side. We should all be so lucky.

You are in my prayers.
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Old 11/30/2007, 11:29 PM
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So sorry to hear this Nina, but I'm glad you were together and that you can both be at peace now. I'm sure Gary knew you were there and felt it was a good time to go. Take care of yourself and Nana now.
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Old 11/30/2007, 11:37 PM
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a sad day indeed.. much love, Amber
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Old 11/30/2007, 11:45 PM
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Oh Nina, I'm sorry.
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Old 11/30/2007, 11:45 PM
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To have such a gentle passing, surrounded by so much love, is a wonderful gift, Nina. You called everything right. Hugs. You're in the thoughts of very, very many people.
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Old 11/30/2007, 11:49 PM
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Oh Nina.....

So Sorry......

More hugs.....

Glad Gary's pain is over but am very sorry for your loss.
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Old 11/30/2007, 11:54 PM
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Sorry for your loss!
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Old 11/30/2007, 11:58 PM
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I just know Gary felt safe making this transition with you by his side. The fact that you were asleep when it happened makes me feel like there are angels watching over you, and they have no doubt welcomed Gary with open arms and carried him to the place from where love originates. In your sadness, remember the blessings. That you were able to be by his side for so long, and at the time when he crossed to the next place, is a gift to you both. Soar forever through the skies of Heaven, Gary. You were an inspiration while you were here, and you will not be forgotten.
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Old 12/01/2007, 12:28 AM
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it is good that gary passed with the one he loved most. travel well gary
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Old 12/01/2007, 12:46 AM
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Nina, I am so sorry. Your strength through this has been amazing.

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Old 12/01/2007, 01:08 AM
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Goodnight Gary, God bless you. I believe there is a beautiful place beyond this world, filled with everything that every person has ever loved. It's a place where no one wants for anything and there is no pain. I believe with all my heart that there is a place there for you Gary, and I think they've probably saved you a prime spot.

Nina, you are an angel here on earth. Gary was a wonderful man, and he couldn't have had a more loving partner. The way you care for him is absolutely transparent in every post, and nobody could have asked for better care. Know that you are supported, and you're in all our prayers.
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Old 12/01/2007, 01:10 AM
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Oh Nina, you lost so much, your best friend, the person you confide in, the person you trusted with all your heart, I'm so sorry Nina, we can't be that for you but the collective bunch of us can hold you up, Nina, we are holding you don't forget that. Gary is still holding you too Nina, but I know that you know that. That comes with that special love. No one can take that away from you.
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Old 12/01/2007, 01:15 AM
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Oh Nina....I am so sorry for your loss!!!!

I believe a part of Gary will always be with you, a love like you two have is never ending!!!! Love, and prayers are being sent out from my home to yours!!!

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Old 12/01/2007, 02:11 AM
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Gary.......go now into Heaven.....into the loving arms of your Creator and Savior.

Find peace there.....and take comfort in knowing that the ones that you have left here will love you always and think of you with a smile on their faces !

Because of who you are....you brought joy to your bride and she will be yours forever.

Because of who you are....she brought joy to our lives and we will love her forever.

Thank you Gary for the strength and conviction of character that you kept throughout your life....and even in leaving us; you did so in a way that only a kind, gentleman would.

God bless you and keep you close to His Throne, Gary....and now REJOICE for you are in the place that all will envy and aspire to be.







Nina......we love you !
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Old 12/01/2007, 02:11 AM
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God bless you both
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Old 12/01/2007, 02:22 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss Nina! I pray that God gives you the strength to keep your chin held high. Your a great woman and I know that Gary must have treasured you. Rest in Peace Gary!
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Old 12/01/2007, 06:07 AM
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nina what can I say that hasn't been said already, he was very fortunate enough to have his loved one by his side when he finally passed on to a better place, it's tough to type when crying right now it really is. Just know that you can call me anytime you like if you get my voice mail leave a message and I'll call you right back.

Hugs for you and your family we all love you and you have been an inspiration for us all,


rest in peace gary we love you
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Old 12/01/2007, 06:13 AM
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Love, hugs and prayers Nina,
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Old 12/01/2007, 07:06 AM
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I'm sorry. May you find the strength to make it through these next few days.
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Old 12/01/2007, 07:14 AM
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Oh Nina, my heart goes out to you today. So sorry for your loss. But in a way, so happy that you and Gary had this perfect of passings. Oh I know it is a terrible vigil, I've sat it a few times, but you two were able to live and love to the last. Gary was surrounded by love as he prepared to leave, and you were there for him as he let go of your hand and this world to start his new journey.

I so wish there was something I could do or say that would ease your pain, but there isn't. These next few days and weeks will be sad and difficult. But I believe you will find that the part of Gary that set up residence in your heart and soul lives on. That is, to me, the higher form of immortality that someone who was able to live and love as Gary did achieves.

God bless you and comfort you Nina.
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Old 12/01/2007, 07:26 AM
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Very sorry Nina....

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Old 12/01/2007, 07:33 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss, and glad that you two spend these last days together surrounded by family
rest in peace gary
live with your loving memories nina
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Old 12/01/2007, 07:35 AM
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maybe the slow passing was the building dept in heaven was taking their sweet time issuing a permit for gary's first project up there
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Old 12/01/2007, 07:35 AM
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