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Do nothing, start again with bigger tank | 120 | 30.85% | |
throw her across the room | 9 | 2.31% | |
throw her out the window | 32 | 8.23% | |
Call the police | 29 | 7.46% | |
Kill her | 69 | 17.74% | |
Divorce | 130 | 33.42% | |
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good luck.
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Here is an excerpt from the Census Bureau report, with a link to the full report: "The National Center for Health Statistics recently released a report which found that 43 percent of first marriages end in separation or divorce within 15 years. The study is based on the National Survey of Family Growth, a nationally representative sample of women age 15 to 44 in 1995. Bramlett, Matthew and William Mosher. "First marriage dissolution, divorce, and remariage: United States," Advance Data From Vital and Health Statistics; No.323. Hyattsville MD: National Center for Health Statistics: 2 1. "Data in the Census report were collected from both men and women, age 15 and over, and a different methodology was used than in the NCHS report. "About 50% of first marriages for men under age 45 may end in divorce, and between 44 and 52% of women's first marriages may end in divorce for these age groups. The likelihood of a divorce is lowest for men and women age 60, for whom 36 % of men and 32 percent of women may divorce from their first marriage by the end of their lives. A similar statistical exercise was performed in 1975 using marital history data from the Current Population Survey (CPS). Projections based on those data implied that about one-third of married persons who were 25 to 35 years old in 1975 would end their first marriage in divorce. "This cohort of people, who in 1996 were about 45 to 55 years old, had already exceeded these projections as about 40% of men and women in these ages had divorced from their first marriage. Current projections now indicate that the proportion could be as high as 50% for persons now in their early forties." Rose M. Kreider and Jason M. Fields, "Number, Timing, and Duration of Marriages and Divorces: 1996", U.S. Census Bureau Current Population Reports, February 2002,
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Wow, I cant believe she did that! Im with the superglue and buttckeeks idea.
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If you’re going to start a bigger tank after that then I would just go ahead and have the divorce papers ready as well. It would be obvious that you have other priority…. Fix the tank and take her out to diner.
Or better yet, let the tank go to hell and spend some time with her. I bet you anything that if you do that she’ll feel bad enough o pay for an upgrade. What do you think the cops are going to do about it? She owns half the tank!!! |
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Frick-N-Frags, I read the whole thread... been here from start to finish. I must be missing something. Are you talking about the two statistics: number of divorces a year and number of marriages ending in divorce? If so how are either of those skewed?
Rich - isn't that a little dramatic? You've concluded that she doesn't love her husband anymore because she poured a condiment in his aquarium?
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"nail her favorite shoes to the floor
replace birthcontrol with sweettarts if aplicable" Are you nuts.... do you actually think she will get screwed if she gets pregnant.... I take it you don't know how much child support is .... |
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After reading this thread I get the feeling RC is holding World's Biggest Drama Queen auditions. Does the winner get a Deltec or something?
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LOL, jman77
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If we have 100 marriages how do 50% of men get divorced and only 44% women. Something isn't adding up for me. Are we counting some of those crazy Utah folk with multiple wifes in that number? I don't think we had gay marriages in 95 to allow for more men to get divorced than women. But seeing how it takes 2 to get married I would have thought the numbers would be equal.
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The answer to your question is in your first sentence Crazy Utah folk? All I can say is wow... We should nominate this for the Post of the Month
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This thread is sooooooo locked!
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I will personally volunteer to be your new, TANK-LOVING WIFE. I make a lot of money, I am crazy about salt-water aquariums and I study marine biology. I took such a great interest in my ex-boyfriend's tank, I even wanted a tank of my own. I spent hours with him asking how it works, what is that plant, what is that aglae, why does that fish not like that other fish...I even drove 40 miles in heavy traffic to get him RO water from his LFS when he was sick, which I could barely carry those big bottles.
I will promise you many gift certificates to your LFS, hours upon hours of "Tank-Gazing" at night and I would never, ever, EVER harm a living creature. I would support you and your hobby no matter what, because it is what you love and it's important to you! I feel for you and I think we all would really like an update on the tank, but you are probably too busy trying to fix it or are overwhelmed with the responses to this post. GOOD LUCK, HONEY!!!
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She knowingly tried to kill his pets. Shes already broken the marriage vows.
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Man A and Woman A are both married, both on their first marriage. They get divorced. Man A marries "young sexy 18year old trophy wife" We now have 100% (1 of 1) first marriage divorce rate in men, 50% first marriage divorce rate in women (1 of 2).
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Are we comparing fish to a dog? And she didn't stab the fish, she polluted the water. It wasn't bleach or some noxious chemical - it was high fructose corn syrup and spices. LOL this whole thread is a joke!
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As to Teryaki sauce, this isnt functionally different from intentionally pouring a whole can of flake food in the tank. That'll kill the fish too. Its a fundamental lack of respect for the other person being shown here. Its spousal abuse, in the most classic way. Would you be telling a woman to work it out if her husband was beating her? This will only get worse. She'll keep being abusive, and the abuse will keep getting worse.
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If this post in serious which I question, then marriage counseling is in order.
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Was the teriyaki sauce next too the rotifers in the fridge...come on this could have been an honest mistake.
Or, she was simply hungry and starting dinner. |
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Or put your rotifier in the teriyaki sauce bottle? If there is a next time.
Kidding aside, she needs to learn to express her emotion in a mature way. And so is your method of venting your frustration. No offence to you or the RC community, but personally I won't seek marriage counsels in a "Reef Discussion" forum. |
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Thanks for all your support. I had no idea you guys would show so much interest in the thread. Its been a rough weekend. I did a 100% water change immediately using NSW. I live in the tropics. I dont know how the animals are doing. I have not been home much and have lost interest in the tank recently. I think the galaxia got the most concentrated dose of teriyaki. I saw it covered in a brown cloud of teriyaki. I have not spoken to my wife since. If you seen pics of my tank or seen it in person this would be a different thread about forensics. I dont care about vows at this point, she broke my heart. I would have preferred her to cut my throat than killing my tank that I spent countless hours and thousands $ . Once this is all over with, Im going to focus on finding a girl that is interested in reefkeeping or maybe just give up women all together. Thanks for the offer blueseahorse!
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Ummmm, lets not go there. Besides, I think he meant being single.
Good luck to you Pluvialis. You know your relationship better than any of us and will do the right thing for YOU.
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