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Old 12/13/2007, 01:54 PM
dkh0331 dkh0331 is offline
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Old 12/13/2007, 02:48 PM
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Let me guess, this friend of yours is saving herself?
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Originally posted by beerguy
A "Promise Ring" == I have no intention of making a commitment with you but am afraid to tell you that so I'm hoping that this diamond will extend my "privileges."
So it's time to quit savin' toots!
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Old 12/13/2007, 02:58 PM
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I never thought they were "childish" untill now. Craig and I have looked at getting one. We know we are getting married, but it's going to be years down the road. I'm still in college and we live with his parents, and I know he won't propose until we have our own place.
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Old 12/13/2007, 03:03 PM
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I thought this practice died out in the 50's? Who knew?
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Old 12/13/2007, 06:01 PM
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Originally posted by crp
Basically says I don't love you enough to want to marry you, but I'll keep you around until something better comes along.

Loser!
Perfectly said! Never had a promise ring, never had a desire for one either.
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Old 12/13/2007, 06:11 PM
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Sounds like she is pressuring the guy to marry her but he doesnt really want to so it kind of makes everyone happy, she gets a ring and lots of hope, he gets her to stop nagging so much without actually committing to anything. Well, talks cheap, either your engaged or your not.
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Old 12/13/2007, 06:28 PM
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Guess what: You're now getting a chunk of free advice (not to be construed as actual therapy) from an experienced marital and family therapist.

Healthy relationships are based on maturity, integrity, honesty, friendship, deep and abiding love; material possessions (promise rings? Geez!) have NOTHING to do with it.

On the other hand, romance without finance is a NU-sance!

Glad I could help.
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Old 12/13/2007, 06:35 PM
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Re: Promise rings

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Originally posted by PoukieBear
Did any of you guys give a promise ring??
Whatever it took.
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Old 12/13/2007, 07:03 PM
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On the other hand, romance without finance is a NU-sance!
I thought it would be rom-fin, since the "ance" would cancel out. Guess I need to go back to the math books...

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Old 12/13/2007, 07:50 PM
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I thought this practice died out in the 50's? Who knew?
Marriage?
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Old 12/13/2007, 08:08 PM
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Before that she got things like diamond earrings, diamond necklace, etc . . . but not a ring.
Cheap skate.....No where on that list does a genuine pearl necklace appear
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Old 12/13/2007, 08:27 PM
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Re: Re: Promise rings

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Originally posted by wizardgus®
Whatever it took.


Thanks Jay, That's what I thought of too.


Thanks oto bad ray
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Old 12/13/2007, 09:01 PM
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Re: Re: Re: Promise rings

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Originally posted by Misled
Thanks Ray, That's what I thought of too.
Who's Ray?

Jay, I like your line of thinking.
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Old 12/13/2007, 09:24 PM
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I think the promise ring is cool if you are in highschool or maybe college but once you are a full fledge adult..........Please, get a grip. If you a stupid ring go buy one, get it yourself. Until then wait for your knight in shining armour and then get a ring from a guy.

BTW guys, stop spending so much freaking money on exspensive huge diamonds. If the hoochie doesn't like a small one and can't wait until your 5th, 10th or what ever anniversary to get the monster rock, she's not in love enough. YEAH, that's the way I feel about it and I said it out loud.
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Old 12/13/2007, 11:20 PM
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We waited to get engaged until he had enough money to buy the ring he felt I deserved. We'd already made the commitment to get married, but didn't make it "official" until he'd bought the ring.

I think I would have looked at him funny if he'd suggested a promise ring.

To be honest, I'd rather be married than engaged.
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Old 12/14/2007, 12:07 AM
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I asked my hubby to marry me, so an engagement ring was never an issue for me. I was happy enough just to be engaged. The wedding band he gave me on our wedding day was more than enough for me.

Sometime later after we were married he surprised me with a beautiful heart shaped solitaire diamond ring for Valentines day. It was so sweet, he was so secretive about it, and then he completely surprised me!! I really wasn't expecting a diamond ring!!

I do think I would have been insulted if he tried to pass off a promise ring as some sort of real commitment. Its one thing for young kids to do that, but for adults it just seems ridiculous!
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Old 12/14/2007, 12:23 AM
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hmmmmmm......I thought by a ring...ya know...a phone call
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Old 12/14/2007, 06:12 AM
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I'm a poor college student right now.....

Can I just give my girlfriend a handshake and my word?????
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Old 12/14/2007, 07:50 AM
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Does she wear a mood ring on the other hand?
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Old 12/14/2007, 07:53 AM
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I'm a poor college student right now.....

Can I just give my girlfriend a handshake and my word?????
To quote/paraphrase the ever so wise wizardgus® - Whatever it takes.
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Old 12/14/2007, 07:56 AM
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Does she wear a mood ring on the other hand?
My wife does! When she is happy it glows emerald green, when she's feeling romantic it glows a soft blue. And when she is angry it leaves a bright red welt on my forehead.










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Old 12/14/2007, 08:21 AM
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My wife does! When she is happy it glows emerald green, when she's feeling romantic it glows a soft blue. And when she is angry it leaves a bright red welt on my forehead.
LMAO
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Old 12/14/2007, 11:41 AM
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I think it is sort of an age thing. I think it is more understandable when you are really young, late teens early 20s. But I think as you get older you should just fork over the cash and buy the real thing.
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Old 12/14/2007, 12:29 PM
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I learned years ago not to ask my SO to promise me anything. That way I'm never dissapointed
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Old 12/14/2007, 12:36 PM
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Cheap skate.....No where on that list does a genuine pearl necklace appear

I gave one to my wife once, but she wasn't pleased...
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