For The Record

[solojrbb]

When I posted my tank for sale I got a lot of responses. And I think the guys name was David or something like that and I had made a partial deal. Meaning I was pretty sure but not to do anything until he heard back from me. I was very clear on that. I also mentioned several times on this forum of my health being bad and things happen. I gave him directions to my house, and still told him not to do anything until we spoke again. I had to go to the Hospital due to some fluid on my spine draining and infection. This is no minor thing to happen. I have had 4 back operations in the past year, major back operations. The member who took it upon him self to drive down from Virgina? I think without hearing from me was not a bright idea. Then after a week or two in the hospital I had no way of getting intouch with anyone on this forum. I do apologize for that part. But as far as him being a victim of getting screwed over that is not true. I was not here, he had been told several times that DO NOT DO ANYTHING UNTIL HE HEARS FROM ME. Yes I did see a lot of phone calls on the caller I.D. where he had called, but I was not here to help him nor had he heard back from me on the final decission. I do not want to insult anyones I.Q. here so maybe he forgot? or just decided to come down here anyway. I know I would not drive that far if someone told me not to make a move until they heard back from me. Yes my mandrins did and do mate, so I m not a bold face liar as one guy had put it that I have done business with. What gives them the right to say such things with out getting the facts. Not hear-say, or opinions but the facts are far better. I was also offended that the guy showed up giving my Mother a scare. I am not sure what he told her, Did you tell her you and I had business together? She also said you camped out in the front yard for a while. That also scared her. I am not out to make any buddies on this forum its just business and you can check ebay, and other forums I am involved with and you will see nothing but good feedback. Try thetreasuredepot.com see the digital camera forum. And I do apologize for the mis understanding that happend. I was not avoiding or ducking away from anyone. I hate it happend but a bunch of people gossping about things they do not know about is not called for. Yes I had to go have a minor operation to get fluid drained and it fell right as I was in the middle of making up my mind. I was pretty sure of selling the tank, however I did tell the guy to wait before he did anything and taking things into your own hands and driving that far was not a good idea. If you did not remember me telling you that, even though I did in two or three of our conversations I am sorry you missed it and we had a break down of communication. For that I apologize. But please watch the gossiping, we are not a bunch of old women standing around talking about things that we do not have the facts on. This is clearly one of those situations.

[solojrbb]

If anyone would like to discuss this my aol im user name is solojrbb

[Nicholo]

Might want to post this in the seller/buyer feedback forum?

[Entropy]

Sounds like a simple misunderstanding to me, although I make it a point to make sure the other party is ready and will be present before I drive anywhere. That is just common courtesy. I would try to work it out with the other guy though, instead of airing it out here.

[Anemone]

I moved this to the buyer/seller feedback area from the Reef Discussion area. I would have put it with your sales psot, but I hae no idea which post this refers to. I am also removing the same thread from the Feedback and Questions forum.

Kevin