barbra,
I have that bulkhead if you need it. Pay the shipping and thrown in a couple bucks for the fitting and its yours. I had to buy a new Megaflow kit to get a strainer so I have all the other parts left...All 3 bulkheads that came with it for return and overflow holes plus a universal one. Thats if its the standard one that came with the kits with the barbed fitting on the end. Wasnt sure by the way you described it above
PM me if interested and I can get in mail today from NC if its the one you need.
These are the ones that came from the new kits