Yea, I'll live.
Actually she has her own tank, even thoug I have to clean it and take care of it, a 45 G hex that we've had for 8 years now.
The 400 is mine to do what I want with, even though she did make me put her prized 12" toadstool leather in the tank since it was getting too big for her tank and she wanted him to have more room to grow.
Now she's out naming the fish in the tank. The Naso's have been named Peter Pan and Tinker bell because she likes Tinker bell. Or Pete and Tink as She calls them.