Hi,
I'm sorry that all of this has happened.
I just wanted to say that I was personally at Bergzi's house last week to pickup some minor items that he was giving away through RC.
I've never met him previously, but I did stay and chat for almost an hour that day as he showed me his tank and reef system.
Here are my unbiased observations based on this encounter:
1. He is seemingly intelligent and well-spoken.
2. He is a professional (a dentist I believe).
3. He lives in a very nice neighborhood and home.
4. He seems to be family oriented and of good moral character.
5. He appears well-organized and portrays a happy demeanor.
In my humble opinion, I don't think that you are dealing with a "flake" so to speak. I think there was a breakdown in communication somewhere that unfortunately set this thing in motion...and now, the financial institutions are dragging their feet.
I would be very frustrated if I were in your place too, but to sum it all up, I don't think this is a case of fraud, spite, or ill-will.
I hope this information helps at least a little, and...
Thanks for listening to my rambling
Kevin T. Adams