Donna, hi and welcome! I'll bring my 2 year old daughter along and they can play together.
Also, I just so happen to have a 75 gallon glass tank, never used, sitting in my garage. Bought it about 1.5 months ago and upgraded before i ever set it up. I'm about to list it in the newspaper but make me an offer and its yours! No pressure though, you said you were on a budget now, just thought i'd throw that out there to tempt you.
PS. I'd take $150 for it, has glass tops, striplight, no built in overflow. Very nice quality tank actually.
BTW, when ARE we having a meeting, anything planned in the near future? Perhaps just a get together to meet each other in person and an excuse to drink *cough* refreshing beverages?