From a female, here: no, it is grossly not fair and borders on criminal negligence. BIL should talk to lawyer, maybe seek another court hearing, esp. re arson and mental issues. Demand she have a mental evaluation: her lawyer will insist on one for BIL, we assume he will be fine with this. Possibly involve Child Protective Services and judge. You can get a court order re certain things.
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